human living


a way doesn’t show up in the walking,
it shows up in the telling





a way is only a way afterwards
and then only in the telling –
never in the living





giving up giving up anger (and sorrow and…)
seems to be doing a job
giving up anger was supposed to do





arrogance limits the already partial view we have of the world leading to cataracts on our capacity for insight and wisdom





in any practice, in any art, the invaluable gift is the critique of the master





spiritual frustration increases with the strength of the desire to know the unknowable





at some moment, perhaps, we stop protesting the wayness of things





the sooner that lust for position passes, the longer for delight in loving the world





right and wrong are not part of the Way; they arise with the conversations that make us human





gardening in interesting times: cultivating heart-mind trust in the world





as emotions lose transcendent import, we can relax:
sadness is just sadness, joy just joy,
no avoiding one, no clinging to the other,
they come and go as they will — as do all the rest




heartfelt

06/14/2009 · 0 comments

in human living


without One, how does one
bear being without
some one in one’s life?





it’s not only that life is short, but that it’s ever shorter





most everyone wants to be happy all of the time . . . and no one ever will




regrets

06/08/2009 · 0 comments

in human living


without guilt, regrets are nothing to regret; they’re just regrets





stillness reveals the utter spontaneity of living





life is never fair, sometimes people are





the way of creativity is the way of appropriation




1000 cuts

05/31/2009 · 0 comments

in human living


“THIS IS IT!”  Whack!
“THIS IS IT!”  Whack!
“THIS IS IT!”  Whack!
————————————
zen: life by 1000 cuts





annoyed with a limitation of age,
I curse . . . watch as anger drains away





I no longer ask God to give me a different fate;
after all, for whom does S/he grant such appeals?

(with thanks to Czeslaw Milosz)





at this moment,
that I don’t like the way it is
doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be this way,
at this moment





the world is not so much a dream, as some say, as we are asleep inside the world dreaming we are awake




parents

05/27/2009 · 0 comments

in human living


our parents raised us the only way they could; pointless to blame them — for anything at all





perennial wisdom is perennial not only because it endures, but because its fundamental insight-emotion can and does occur naturally, spontaneously